Throughout the years, I have been amazed at some of the poor choices in men my female friends have made. Many of these women were beautiful, educated, talented, God-fearing and all-around good woman of high moral fiber. Yet, they seemed to be attracted to men who were not good for them. And sadly, many entered into relationships with these men at their own peril.
So the question becomes, why? None of us have the power to see the future, but some things are obvious. We just choose to look the other way and before we know it, we think we are in love but love should not cause us pain and suffering.
Note 2 the ladies: If he is morally bankrupt don’t waste your time with him. If you see behavior in him that is unbecoming of who you are as a person, then head for the hills. Do not allow yourself to be lured into a relationship that will cause you future devastation. If he is indeed a man who loves the Lord, then opportunity may await you. Ask yourself a question before you enter into a relationship with any man. Is he an Ephesians 5 kind of guy? Ephesians 5 outlines how a man should love and treat his wife. If you see that in him, then maybe he is worth going out with.
You are God’s daughters, and He loves you. He loves you too much to send you junk! “He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord.” (Proverbs 18:22) Remember, you are some man’s good thing!
Blessings to you all, my friends.
Daniel
The Note 2 Self Guy